Jealousy.

Jealousy.

It is a feeling, thought, or behaviour resulting from one's perception of a threat to his possession of something he or she values.


I just read today from an MSN article about jealousy. The author talked about his moments of being jealous, and how he ended up being silly and stupid. It was really funny, though still very informative in a way. In it he also mentioned about men being more jealous about sexual infidelity while women more on emotional infidelity.

Yeah. Why is that? Men in general (me included) quite become jealous over the possibility of someone I love/like/lust having sex with someone else. That's the first thing on my mind. Questions like the following immediately occupy and bug me: Did she kiss him? Did she hold hands with him? Did they have sex? In rare occassions does this question come to my mind first: Does she love him?

Men in general would rather have their women sexually faithful to them. It's not as important as their woman being in love with them or not. Wow we really are such bastards.

Women on the other hand are more concerned of whether their man love the other woman or not. So it is quite common to see women letting go over some indiscretion.

It is really that "Did you have sex with him?" vs "Do you love her?" question.

Women are such angels. But on the other hand, this is exactly the same kind of mentality that makes men very jealous. Oftentimes girls see things innocently (or make us men believe it so), like a kiss to a close friend that meant nothing, a dance that meant nothing, eye-to-eye contact that meant nothing..that "he's just a friend" and nothing more...and all those other things they tell us men that were simply nothing..that we are just too jealous sometimes. Ha! right! Sluts!!!

Oh God...I really am a disfunctional human being unsuitable for any serious relationship. Like most men are.